4 Reasons You Should Try Fisting

Vaginal and anal fisting are among the sex practices that are considered extreme. While others imagine the pain, some are totally turned on by the thought of being stretched that wide. There’s a fine line between fisting and extra large dildos and there is no stopping those who want to cross it. If you are hell bent on getting that fist up inside you and have no idea what you will gain from it, you are in the right place. Here are some fisting benefits that go beyond what you see on the porn site.

The Thrill of the Stretch

Fisting is the ultimate stretching goal for most of the participants. It takes a very long time and some great patience to indulge in anal stretching, not to mention that investments. Getting stretched to the maximum is a very enjoyable sport that gives you the satisfaction from all those months spent training for the big finale.

While most settle for the stretch of the biggest cock they can find, the wrist makes for an even greater girth. This drives the mind into a frenzy as you imagine how it would feel to get that stretch, and it is seldom disappointing. Feeling your body open up to new circumferences is a fete that requires a gold medal.

Trust

Fisting in itself is a dangerous sport. Trying this with anyone opens you up to a whole lot of scary incidences which feature a less than appealing ending. For the most part, fisting requires open communication to ensure that the boundaries are not crossed. In addition to this, the dominant has to constantly monitor the submissive to ensure that they are okay and not braving the pain. This level of understanding leads to a development of deep trust where both parties feel responsible for the session and aim to ensure that it is as safe as can be. Furthermore, getting the knuckles past the opening is no easy fete and no stranger can get you to relax enough for it to pass through. Trust starts the game and trust keeps the game going strong.

Orgasmic Bliss

Fisting fills up the vaginal and the anal cavity to the brim. With the fist moving in various positions, the prostate gland and the G-spot are easily accessible. This ensures that the dominant gets to thoroughly massage these glands with ease and even greater force, making sure that the body is engulfed with powerful sensations like never before. In addition, the sensitive vaginal and anal cavity walls get massaged and the nerve endings stimulated intensely and at a deeper and more hands on level. The sensations that are derived from this experience ensure that the body is engulfed in some powerful orgasmic contractions in no time at all.

Power

Fisting requires a total control over the submissive to ensure that there are no mistakes as to who is in charge. With the submissive laid out in full view, they hand over complete control to the dominant who is sure to take the role seriously. Just like any other BDSM play, the dominant has a game play in mind set up to get the submissive to feel exactly what he or she intends.

If you are just starting out in the fisting game, you have to learn to let go of any perceived control over your body and just go with the flow. The safe word is there for a reason and your greatest role is ensuring that you get your muscles to relax so that you receive the sensations coming your way openly.

While fisting is not what comes to mind when romance is mentioned, do not skimp on the foreplay if you want the session to take a wild and intensively satisfying path. Ensure that the submissive is highly aroused as you commence as this goes a long way in helping them relax and take you in. Preparation is of the utmost importance and so is safety. Always ensure that you keep true to the safety guides and follow the procedure to keep the game safe as well as enjoyable for both parties. Most of all, do not rush the session.

Ieva Kubiliute

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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