here are my thoughts: How to Say No to Being a Bridesmaid

here are my thoughts: How to Say No to Being a Bridesmaid

Investigate Your Life

If you are unsure whether to say no or yes to being a bridesmaid, you may want to take a few days to think about it. You might have other things in life this needs your attention, making you unsure whether or not to accept their request. My advice to you is make sure you tell your friend why you need to think about it to avoid hurting your relationship.

Don’t Delay Your Response

If you don’t buy the idea of being a bridesmaid from the beginning, it is best to say no soon. Delaying your response can cause more harm than good. After saying no, give reasons and opt for other ways to support the bride.

Show kindness and Respect

While it is important to explain the reasons for saying no, don’t insist on them. Insisting on the reasons shows you are less kind and disrespectful to the bride.

Charlotte Cremers
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MS, University of Tartu
Sleep specialist

Using the acquired academic and professional experience, I advise patients with various complaints about mental health - depressed mood, nervousness, lack of energy and interest, sleep disorders, panic attacks, obsessive thoughts and anxieties, difficulty concentrating, and stress. In my free time, I love to paint and go on long walks on the beach. One of my latest obsessions is sudoku – a wonderful activity to calm an unease mind.

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