I recommend the following tips
Be honest and give your reason for declining
Has your friend asked for a hand as a bridesmaid during their special day but you cannot afford? Well, the best thing is coming out clear about it. This is your friend and you should not be ashamed of informing about your low financial abilities, making you unable to accommodate their wish. Be frank about your unpaid bills, loans, or family obligation that cannot allow you to accept the offer.
Be timely
Time is important for everybody and everything, including plans towards your friend’s big day. Therefore, if you cannot manage to grant their request for whatever reasons, I recommend being timely in giving information. This way, they can find other options if need be. Perhaps you earlier said yes, but something else urgently came up, limiting your chances of fulfilling the promise, it is best to call and inform as soon as possible.
Avoid hurting them
Almost every bride is usually under stress, and the worst that can worsen their condition includes hurting their emotions. Perhaps they got mad because you declined joining them, be gracious enough to avoid fights. Apologize genuinely and ensure to get them a thoughtful gift that they will live to remember.
MS, University of Latvia
I am deeply convinced that each patient needs a unique, individual approach. Therefore, I use different psychotherapy methods in my work. During my studies, I discovered an in-depth interest in people as a whole and the belief in the inseparability of mind and body, and the importance of emotional health in physical health. In my spare time, I enjoy reading (a big fan of thrillers) and going on hikes.
- FDC – Giejo Magazine Article - July 29, 2023
- MoriMa Tea the – Chinese tea culture - April 26, 2023
- Missionary Position – Least Likely To Bring You To Climax - April 7, 2023
