HOW TO CHOOSE A VIBRATOR THAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU

The best way to get started with vibrators pleasuring yourself minus toys to understand how your body responds. It helps know what feels pleasurable and where. Afterwards, you can consider the insights below;

  • If internal stimulation like penetration helps you orgasm faster, I recommend a G-spot vibrator.
  • Buy an external vibrator if stimulating the clitoris takes you to the edge, such as, a wand or bullet.
  • Perhaps you achieved orgasm through both vaginal penetration and clit stimulation, then your most suitable vibe is the rabbit vibrators.
  • For partnered plays, I highly recommend starting with vibrating cock rings, which can stimulate the penis and clit at the same time for increased pleasure.
Barbara Santini

Barbara is a freelance writer and a sex and relationships adviser at Dimepiece LA and Peaches and Screams. Barbara is involved in various educational initiatives aimed at making sex advice more accessible to everyone and breaking stigmas around sex across various cultural communities. In her spare time, Barbara enjoys trawling through vintage markets in Brick Lane, exploring new places, painting and reading.

MS, University of Tartu
Sleep specialist

Using the acquired academic and professional experience, I advise patients with various complaints about mental health - depressed mood, nervousness, lack of energy and interest, sleep disorders, panic attacks, obsessive thoughts and anxieties, difficulty concentrating, and stress. In my free time, I love to paint and go on long walks on the beach. One of my latest obsessions is sudoku – a wonderful activity to calm an unease mind.

Anastasia Filipenko is a health and wellness psychologist, dermatolist and a freelance writer. She frequently covers beauty and skincare, food trends and nutrition, health and fitness and relationships. When she's not trying out new skincare products, you'll find her taking a cycling class, doing yoga, reading in the park, or trying a new recipe.

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