Why Sex May Not Play as Important a Role in Some Romantic Relationships as They Do in Others

Why Sex May Not Play as Important a Role in Some Romantic Relationships as They Do in Others?

In some romantic relationships, sex is not a priority. Yes, you read that right. Some couples are happier without much or any sex.

What Are A Few Reasons Why Some People May Not Prioritize Sex?

Business-Oriented Relationship

A business-oriented relationship describes an arrangement where couples discuss money a lot. This means they have little or no time for romance and sexuality.

Painful Sex

Painful sex is common among post-menopausal women. When women grow older, their estrogen levels plummet, causing lubrication issues and vaginal thickness. Due to this, some women choose to avoid sex.

Things That Are More Important Than Sex in A Relationship

Respect for Each Other

Respect is one of the fundamental aspects of a healthy, fulfilling romanticrelationship. This means a lack of respect for each other can even sabotage a healthy relationship.

Good Communication

It is no secret that a relationship where couples communicate thoughts and feelings throughout lasts. Lack of good communication is tied to frequent conflicts and disagreements, which can kill the butterflies in the relationship.

True Love

Telling each other the three-letter word- “I Love You” often makes things in your relationship feel different, including sex. Therefore, it is safe to say there is no healthy relationship without true love.

Many People Consider Sex an Important Part of a Relationship — But Is It Essential?

While sex is among the pillars of a happy, healthy relationship, it is not essential.

What About Other Types of Physical Connection?

It depends. Some couples value physical connection more than others.

If You and Your Partner Have Mismatched Needs and Desires for Sex, What Can You Do About It?

  • Talk about it with your partner
  • Try other sexual activities, including oral sex and mutual masturbation
  • Schedule sex
  • Always warm up before sex

How Can You Communicate Your Needs to Your Partner Effectively?

  • Find out if they are free or in good spirits. Timing is important
  • Talk about something you like about them(optional)
  • Share your feelings
  • Explain why you feel so
  • Communicate your need
  • Negotiate
  • Thank them for being there with you that moment
  • Ask them if they have something to add to what you discussed
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Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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