Anal stimulation is known to provide powerful orgasmic experience. Anal beads make for great introductory anal sex toys because of their design and size. The small spherical beads are easy to insert and the anal beads made from flexible material are designed for first time users. The anal beads are graduating in size, allowing you to stretch out gradually.
To start you off, here are a few guides that will allow you to make the most out of your anal bead experience;
Anal Beads Safety
Use a generous amount of lubrication for each session. Always ensure that you use lubricant that is compatible with the material that the toy is made out of.
Always stop if you experience pain. A little discomfort is normal, but make sure you do not force anything up the ass if you are met with resistance.
Ensure that you warm up the sphincter muscles before penetration to ease the expansion of the muscles as they will be more relaxed. Before the warm up session, ensure that you have trimmed your nails.
Never use a desensitizing lubricant for anal play. It will make it difficult to determine whether you have any injuries, leading to extensive damage before you realize what is happening.
Make sure you communicate with your partner throughout the session while also keeping an eye on their body language to ensure they are not trying to brave through a painful experience.
Preparation for Anal Beads
Anal play requires extensive preparation beforehand. For starters, ensure that the bowels are empty by going to the toilet before the session is to start. This helps you avoid a messy situation. Also make sure that you avoid fibrous and spicy foods days leading up to the session.
If you require a deeper and more extensive deep cleaning, you can have a douche/enema session 3 to 4 hours before the session.
The sphincter muscles require a bit of relaxation before game time so take the opportunity to warm the muscles up before the session starts. Using adequate lubricant, insert one finger into the anus and let it rest there until you feel your muscles relax. Next insert the second finger until you feel the muscles relax a bit more.
Play Time
Once you are all cleaned up and ready to go, here are some steps that will make the session go a little smoother;
- Completely relax your pelvic muscles. This will ease your sphincter muscles into relaxation.
- Apply ample lubricant to the anal opening, both on the inside and the outside. Always ensure that you use lubricant that is safe for anal use.
- Warming up cannot be stressed enough. With the sphincter muscles being very inflexible, it is of paramount importance that you are relaxed before any attempt at penetration.
- Place yourself in the position of your choice that will allow easy access to your anal opening.
- Lube up the anal beads and insert an inch at a time. Ensure that you relax your muscles and go slowly until the toy is fully inserted.
Positions To Try Out With Your Anal Beads
For solo play, there are a few positions that will allow you easy access. You could try all three as you discover which one will work best for you.
Position yourself on all fours and stretch to the back to insert the toy. This may take a bit of practice especially if you are not so flexible.
Lie on your back and place a pillow under your lower back. This will raise your ass a bit in the air. Spread your legs wide and insert the beads.
Alternatively, you could squat over the plug and brace yourself using your hand as you slowly insert the beads.
Anal beads have a loop at the end to prevent the toy from slipping completely inside the anal cavity. The loop makes it easy to withdraw the toy after use. There are so many types of anal beads, ranging from flexible to rigid beads. This allows for progress from the beginner friendly anal beads to something that is more suitable for the more experienced players. Whether for solo play or couples session, anal beads are versatile enough to be incorporated into so many plays, enabling you to exercise your imagination fully.
MS, University of Latvia
I am deeply convinced that each patient needs a unique, individual approach. Therefore, I use different psychotherapy methods in my work. During my studies, I discovered an in-depth interest in people as a whole and the belief in the inseparability of mind and body, and the importance of emotional health in physical health. In my spare time, I enjoy reading (a big fan of thrillers) and going on hikes.
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