Ways To Make Safer Sex Hot, Fun, And or Kinky

Ways To Make Safer Sex Hot, Fun, And/or Kinky

Add Sex Toys to Your Romantic Life

It is 2022, and sex toys are seriously sweeping the sex world. So, instead of trying to elevate your sex game by watching porn with your boo, get a few pieces (think: pumps, handcuffs, and harnesses) for masturbation or partnered play. Believe me, you won’t regret replacing porn with sex toys.

Embrace Sexting

Sexting is what it sounds-sharing raunchy texts with your darling. You can take a step further by sharing teasing photos and nudes. In general, sexting creates anticipation that can make your sex hot.

Switch It Up

 As a sex therapist, I feel people get the concept of sexual kink wrong. Most people are permanent dominants and submissive. That is not how sexual kink works. As a couple, try switching roles. For instance, if one night you are a dominating partner, the other night you can be at the mercy of your darling.

Barbara Santini

Barbara is a freelance writer and a sex and relationships adviser at Dimepiece LA and Peaches and Screams. Barbara is involved in various educational initiatives aimed at making sex advice more accessible to everyone and breaking stigmas around sex across various cultural communities. In her spare time, Barbara enjoys trawling through vintage markets in Brick Lane, exploring new places, painting and reading.

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