THE BENEFITS OF AND HOW TO GIVE AN INTIMATE MASSAGE

THE BENEFITS OF AND HOW TO GIVE AN INTIMATE MASSAGE

An intimate massage between partners sets the mood for romance, letting you become intimate with each other. It results in a moment full of passion and love. Through the massage, you will enjoy one another’s company as both of you end up relaxed. The following tips can help;

Mood setting

Get dim lights or light some candles to set a romantic mood. You can also tune in your partner’s favorite music. Play something that soothes them.

Buy sensual lotions or oils

Ask for a massage oil that boosts sexual pleasure. My partner and I use CBD oils and they do wonders to us.

Slowly is the key

Make your partner relax by starting slowly. Let it begin like other typical massage routines. Avoid going directly to the genitals. Allow them time before getting ready for receiving it fully in those areas. Move your hand’s heel continuously, making fluid motions as you involve the entire muscle length. Handle one muscle at a time. Knead out any knot you feel until it disappears.

Tease them

After servicing each part, go closer to their sweet spots but without touching them. For example, tease around the nipple instead of touching it directly. Same applies to the thighs and other parts.

Massage the erotic parts

After teasing them indirectly, start massaging their sexy parts. Now, the sexual tension will be highly built that a simple touch is enough to leave them moaning. Massage the clit with circular motions followed by a light hand job. Do this ensuring they achieve orgasm.

Ieva Kubiliute

Ieva Kubiliute is a psychologist and a sex and relationships advisor and a freelance writer. She's also a consultant to several health and wellness brands. While Ieva specialises in covering wellness topics ranging from fitness and nutrition, to mental wellbeing, sex and relationships and health conditions, she has written across a diverse range of lifestyle topics, including beauty and travel. Career highlights so far include: luxury spa-hopping in Spain and joining an £18k-a-year London gym. Someone’s got to do it! When she’s not typing away at her desk—or interviewing experts and case studies, Ieva winds down with yoga, a good movie and great skincare (affordable of course, there’s little she doesn’t know about budget beauty). Things that bring her endless joy: digital detoxes, oat milk lattes and long country walks (and sometimes jogs).

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